OUR TIPS FOR A SUCCESSFUL THREESOME


    After our last survey, we asked you what was on your sexual bucket list and we found out that having a threesome was the most common fantasy - it can be an awesome way to explore your sexuality, whether you’re alone or with your partner! To make the experience as enjoyable as possible, there is our tips for a successful threesome.

    WHERE TO FIND THE RIGHT PEOPLE

    Obviously, you will not ask to random people in the street if there are keen for a threesome. However, by experience, we couldn't recommend you enough to go to a libertine club, website or application - this is where you will have the best chance to find the right people to discuss more about their experiences and take advices to make it the most enjoyable for everyone involve.

    COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY

    Talk beforehand! Before there is a little more action, it needs a little more conservation. Some threesomes may “just happen”, sometimes you are at a particularly wild party or meet the right type of freak at the club but most of the successful threesome started by a first date with the chosen people - it can be a couple or two single persons. It is very important to make sure of the nature of the relationship between the two chosen one, this will decrease considerably the chance of experiencing a bad ending. Then you make sure the energy is flowing between the three of you.

    If you feel like the connection is here, we recommend you to take the time to discuss about your boundaries, desires and rules before jumping into the next step.

    SOMEONE MAY FEEL LEFT OUT

    If you can't bear the thought of it being you, you may not be ready for a threesome. Be ready to awkwardly sit on the bed questioning what to do while the second goes down on the third. Don’t expect a perfectly smooth ride.

    Unfortunately, things don't always go as planned as you expected to, that's a risk you need to agree before you decide to go for the desired reward. There’s always this "we’ll all just have fun together!" vibe going in, but inevitably, when things get heated, someone winds up being the center of attention, that's something you need to be aware of.

    Tips: to break the ice and make it fun for everyone, play naughty games. This will make it entertaining for everyone so the moment will not feel embarrassing.

    FOCUS ON PLEASING EVERYONE

    Threesome requires concentration, it is successful when everyone is deeply engaged on what's going on at the moment, open minded to trying different things, and not just fixating on one partner more than the other, unless that's the dynamic that everyone is cool with, since it can be super hot sometimes when two people decide to fixate to pleasure and take care of one.

    If you don't make a conscious effort to attend to all three parties, resentments can form. How to avoid this? Along with choosing the proper third and keeping up the communication, the answer is: don't be a selfish prick in bed!



    CHECK IN WITH YOUR PARTNERS

    Threesomes can be very intense and can cause new emotions to bubble up after they're over. Even if you discuss the risk of jealousy (for any reasons), things might change once you're actually in the act of a threesome. Talk with the partners afterwards to discuss how you felt, and whether it was a total bust or something you'd want to do again. Swapping highlights is a great way to find new ways you can please each other, too.

    Check in with everyone which was involve, make sure y'all was/are comfortable and there's not any awkwardness or hurt feelings between the three of you.

    Last but not least - protect yourself using condoms (male or female, even while foreplay) and relieve the pressure! At the end of the day, it's all about having fun!

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